Naive

Hi...

I'm having an amazing-terrible-exhausting days last week.

But last week, I also caught so many amazing things.

Now,

I'm going to share something to you guys. It's about love.

Well, call me a melancholic, but I don't care. I think, this is a good information for you guys who are falling in love right now.

Here we go.

I watched two movies last week.

The movies were 27 Dresses and The Ugly Truth.
The point of the movies are same.

It's about there's a woman, falls in love with a man. So classic and so naive.

And I see that she's trying the best she could to get the boy's attention.

But what hurts is...

That he never gives her special attention.

She's trying...

She puts make up more than she used to wear.

She dressed up.

She sprays perfume.

She smiles and sneaks around to see the man.

But based on what I see, the man reacts nothing.

Until she found out that he never interested on her, that he never thought about her.

That's the saddest part.

What I'm trying to say is...

Love is such a naive thing.

You don't have to try so hard,

You don't have to give it all away to make someone loves you.

I know that you're in love, and love can blind you. But what you have to remember is,

you have to stay awake.

You have to realize.

When you fall in love, I know that everything about him/her seems so perfect. He/she has no flaws.

But oh God, really?

Wake up!

Let me give you some tips:

At the beginning you fall in love with someone, you have to see carefully and think with your brain,

"does he/she interested on me, the way I do to him/her?"

Remember! Do not think and feel with your heart. Heart doesn't really help you when you have problems about love.

Give them first chance, second chance, third chance, after the third chance you gotta think and accumulate things you got from him/her.

"does he/she give you special attention?"

"does he/she smile at you when you smile at him/her?"

"does he/she often text you, even if it's just talking about something random?"

etc.

If he/she gives you good signal that he/she interested on you, proceed!

But if he/she doesn't... I'm sorry. But it will be better if you take a step back.

To avoid you from a brokenheart.

But do you know?

Some people are lucky enough to be with someone they love. They just got it!

But some people are also not so lucky.

But at the end of the day,

Trust me,

You'll be with someone who was born to be with you. Who truly loves you just the way you are.

Believe it.